將加人  先問己  己不欲 即速已

我要求別人做的事，要先問自己願不願意做。自己不願意做的事，不要要求別人去做。

What I ask others to do, I must first ask myself if I would be willing to do. If it is not something I would be willing to do, I will not ask others to do it.

(果立注: 己所不欲，勿施於人。此為孔子之恕道，視人如己，則在邦無怨、在家無怨。聯合國大廳一幅諾曼的崁鑲畫「金律」下便有其英文版本（聖經亦有類似文字）己所欲，施於人：「Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.」

恩欲報  怨欲忘  報怨短 報恩長

別人給我的恩惠，我一定要報答。我對別人的怨恨，一定要忘記。我報怨的時間要越短越好，想報答別人恩惠的心要長遠。

I must repay the kindness of others and let go of my resentments. I will spend less time holding grudges and more time paying back the kindness of others.

(果立注:  滴水之恩，湧泉以報。此為義也。佛家之因果論，可稱之善緣。有怨不報，此夫子之恕道也。）