引用文章城邦交換愛情語錄的徵文活動： 飛蛾撲火前，牠知道牠的結果是灰燼嗎？如果知道，牠還會做一樣的選擇嗎？如果愛情裡只能有被愛和愛人，請分享你想當被愛？還是愛人的那方？

                                                   愛字號七『自』箴言    

                                                 選擇狠狠的被愛

                                   勝過癡癡的等待

                                   愛恣情狂都願嚐

                                   多情總被無心傷

                                   寧被捧在掌心呀

                                   不願化身苦情花

                                   愛就是如此無價

                                   世人追逐仰賴祂

                                   愛他就別禁錮他

                                   被愛不是被懲罰

                                   曠男怨女懂了嗎

                                   烈火焚身這代價

                                   生命交換實太大