My son loves to play PC game while he has free time, and he joins cross country running becasue his close freind does so.   But I didn't see he practices at High school and go to meet for competition.    I start to fees he should spend time on his school work, prepare SAT, exercise routine etc for college.  But he always told me he does fine at school, he get all A.    I don't understand why he is so relax/lazy at everything, but I have to worry so much about his computer game, school work and SAT/ACT tests.     I hope one day, he can wake up and spend more time at everything that he chooses, don't be so lazy and relax.   Otherwise I am sleepless for his 4 years high school.