According to me,

the function of the parents is not how to help the children grow.

They will grow without you.

Your function is to support, to nourish, to help what is already growing. Don´t give directions and don´t give ideals.

Don´t tell them what is right and what is wrong —

let them find it by their own experience.  

對我而言，

父母的作用不在於協助孩子成長，

沒有你，他們仍然會成長。

你的功能是支持、滋養、幫助那些正在成長的，

不要給予任何方向或概念，

不要告訴他們什麼對的、什麼是錯的，

讓他們透過自己的經驗來學習。

─Osho