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讓人把話說完
2012/04/03 17:08
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Victoria Osteen said:

A lot of times when a person is in conversation, they are thinking about what they are going to say next. But, what if instead of thinking about what you are going to say, you think about what the other person is saying? You may already know where the conversation is headed, but that's okay; be considerate and let them finish anyway. Maybe someone asks you a question, and you know the answer before they finish speaking. Resist the tendency to jump in there and cut them off with, "Here, let me tell you what to do."

In her essay “ Instilling Value and Showing Love”.

不錯,我們常常急著表達自己的意見而打斷人家的話,沒讓人把話說完。這有時可能是為了表示自己的權威,有時則可能為了表示自己聞一知十的智慧,不管這個自負有沒有來由,你不但可能已經失去了傾聽某些好意見的機會,你也可能已經引起一個人的不快,或打擊了一個人的信心,尤其是孩子。

讓人把話說完是一種修養,也是一種道德,它並不會損及你的權威和智慧,權威和智慧是來自於能力的本質,而不是強力的主脹
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