當人們都不願意聆聽，也許不是人們缺乏聆聽能力，而是我們沒有有意識的使用聲音。當世界充滿了噪音、沒有意義的話，久而久之我們就會習慣聽而不聞。
http://www.ted.com/talks/julian_treasure_how_to_speak_so_that_people_want_to_listen#t-575214
很棒的演講，但是好像沒有翻譯，大家練練聽力吧
Note：
他提到七個應避免的壞習慣
gossip, judging, negative, complaining, excuses, lying, dogmatism
其中我常犯的錯誤有
1. judging,常評論他人。
2. lying, 發表不確定的言論以至於誇大不實。
3. dogmatism, 事實與意見的混淆。
另外縮寫HAIL代表的是：
Honesty(誠實)
Authenticity(真實→做自己就好)
Integrity(言行一致，成為一個大家可以相信的人)
Love(真心的祝福他人)
我認為我要改進的是
1. integrity, 做到的離所說的有段差距
2. Love, 少一點評論，多一點祝福
最後是有意識的使用聲音
register, timbre, prosody, pace, pitch, volume
一般人最常犯的毛病也許是
聲音單調、陳述句聽起來像問句(尤其在英語演說時沒有信心的狀況常發生)
我要注意的是講話速度的調整、長話短說、善用silence(less is more)等等。
"What would the world be like if we were speaking powerfully to people who were listening consciously in environment which were actually fit for purpose?
Or to make that a bit larger, what would the world be like if we were creating sound consciously and consuming sound consciously and designing all our environments consciously for sound?
That would be a world that does sound beautiful, and one where understanding would be the norm, and that is an idea worth spreading."
