珍惜...包容

我讓你並不是我爭不過你，而是因為，我不想失去你…

朋友希望大家都懂得珍惜所以得來不易的緣份，主動表示善意真不表示懦弱…，真愛，是包容，是忍耐，而不是意氣用事，退讓主動示好，很多時候不代表懦弱或失敗，而是一種智慧的表徵！

在愛的境界裡，愛應該是成就一切的動力，而不是逞強的競爭吧！ 

 先讓步，先示好，先閉嘴，先表示善意，真的不代表懦弱。 

不會損害一個人的尊嚴，是一種恢弘大度的至愛行為。男女之間如此，朋友之間亦然。 

很多好朋友會為了一句話傷了和氣，損及友誼，甚至不說話往來。 

交一個朋友需要很多時間來培養但是要失去一個，朋友只要一秒鐘。 當然會有人說：『少它一個又不會死！』是不會死，而且離死太遠了。只是那樣的失去，卻是生命中很大的遺憾。 

一為長者曾很深沈的表示：『當一個人的生命接進結束時，他們回視自己這一生的時候，印象最身的不是自己做了多少大事，有什麼好名聲，而是自己曾擁有過多少愛。』 自己愛過誰，誰又愛過自己，才是生命中最真實，有意義的。

生命中或許原本屬於我們的幸福完美，常因為我們輕忽恣意揮霍，

不懂得珍惜，堅持不必要的堅持而錯失良機，姻緣拆散，朋友反目。想想…這中間的受害人是誰呢? 若只是為了放不下的矜持，為了爭一口莫名的氣，而死坳著，那不是酷，不是有種，也不是堅強，而只是頑固。與摯愛相比，那些小小的自我，實在太微不足道了，真的！如果你愛你的朋友，尊重他們，何防先表示關懷先示好，如果你心中藏著一些感謝，有些話想告訴某一個人，千萬別悶著，找個時間告訴那個人吧！ 在你有生之年好好的感受一下，愛的溫暖…，那感覺…真好….So good...  如果您愛一個人千萬別太計較輸贏，爭贏了一口氣又如何呢？如果因此毀了諸多時日才漸立起的情感或婚姻，您說那值得嗎？先低頭者覺並非弱者也非一定是錯的一方，反而更顯現出勇者風範，不但是一種愛的表現也代表您高智慧的勝出。就如天下父母無不因為愛自己的小孩，包容小孩的諸多過錯。如果您可以包容您的小孩，相信您也一定可以作到包容您的另一半。一再責備僵持死也不低頭，往往只會令事情更糟，改變一下方式或許您可以收到更好的結果。

Jimmy please say you'll wait for me
I'll grow up someday you'll see
Saving all my kisses just for you
Signed with love
forever true

(Jimmy)
Joni was the girl who lived next door
I've known her I guess 10 years or more
Joni wrote me a note one day
And this is what she had to say

 (joni)
Jimmy please say you'll wait for me
I'll grow up someday you'll see
Saving all my kisses just for you
Signed with love
forever true

(jimmy)
Slowly I read her note once more
Then I went over to the house next door
Her tear drops fell like rain that day
When I told Joni what I had to say

(jimmy)
Joni, Joni please don't cry
You'll forget me by and by
You're just fifteen
I'm twenty two
And Joni I just cant wait for you
Soon I left our little home town
Got me a job and tried to settle down
But these words kept haunting my memory
The words that Joni said to me

(joni)
Jimmy please say you'll wait for me
I'll grow up some day you'll see
Saving all my kisses just for you
Signed with love
forever true

(jimmy)
I packed my clothes
And I caught a plane
I had to see Joni
I had to explain
How my heart was filled
With her memory
And ask my Joni if she'd marry me
I ran all the way
To the house next door
But things weren't like they were before
My tear drops fell like rain that day
When I heard what Joni had to say

(joni)
Jimmy, Jimmy please don't cry
You'll forget me by and by
It's been five years since you've been gone
Jimmy I married your best friend John