Are you one of those citizenries who feels a little dying when things get really, realy good? Do you habitually cover your proverbial caput, waiting for the other shoe to drop down? Ugh. Do not you just hate that? It's one thing to be alert and cognizant that the unexpected does and will come, but to go through life poised for it, afraid to risk and truly INHABIT? That's enfeebling. I call it The lanvin shoes. We do work diligently and successfully to create the living we dream of, only to arrive at the threshold and feel too paralytic to actually encompass and enjoy it. There seems to always be more to do or some next thing lollygaging around the corner that could go wrong. It's sometimes so elusive it's almost indiscernible, except that it always stifles our JOY.

We could be in the best human relationship, career, or dangerous undertaking of our life, and we are so fussy preparing for the big to go on that we hold back, hold on, and maintain still when we could be dwelling our blissfulness!. The honorable news is, The Lanvin Shoe is larned behaviour and it can be un-learned. It may have been set up by someone, somewhere doing their best to protect us and not wanting us to get our promises up, or it may have been routed through our own personal letdown and bankruptcy and we are diping to avoid the pain again. That's just human nature, although unfortunately, if we are dousing, we 're crouched down, covering our head (lanvin sneakers!) and we 're not fully POPULATING!. The reality is, if we 're breathing in the least, a myriad of things are going to come about anyway, because... well, that's just life. AND, guess what?

It's JUST A SHOE! If something goes wrong, we'll deal it. We always have, because that's what we do. Yes, we have seen uncomfortableness, letdown and pain, and we may have had to get help, let go, or begin over, but if we 're still here, we managed it! And if we used it well, we learned and turned from it, which is meant to be used for the good, not to hide from the bad. So, YES... go ahead and savour all the good right now ! And trust. If and when you are detoured by going down shoes, you'll be much better outfited to manage it if you are experiencing authorised and desirable of all the yummyness you have made for yourself. You merit to hold your head up and live your good! Observe your achiever. Do your happy dancing. Savour your JOY! And if you commence to feel that shrewish little worry again, commend... it's just a SHOE!.