談判或者討論的過程中，一定有相對優勢和弱勢，儘管理想中我們希望締造雙贏，但感情上難免還是有可能有一方覺得受委屈了。如果你是總是相對強勢談判上總是贏的人，或許偶爾可以試試看刻意的輸一點，這樣你或許可以贏得友誼，或者贏得對方歡喜離去的微笑，總的來說，你會還是贏家。
During the process of negotiation or discussion, there must be a party who win more than the other, although ideally win-win is preferred. If you are the one who always win, try to lose sometime. To understand that due to your yielding, you might create a friendship or a smily face. Then you are still a winner.~S