10/18/2025 yesterday told spouse Trump 自闭症 caused by Tylenol (severe liver disease, kids, Pregnancy must stay away; side effects can include bloody or black, tarry耽搁stools (ie (积便), bloody or cloudy urine, fever, chills, severe lower back or side pain, and skin rash or hives.)
spouse told me when he was junior a big crime happened to Tylenol that criminal put poisen in Tylenol since then he didnt take Tylenol but others (ibuprofen, aspirin).
then i read 八字“硬”知识（八）“偏印”过多者，性格“孤僻”，表达含蓄。...做事不明说，靠别人“猜”，兜圈子，浪费时间；有“艺术、文学、哲理”天赋，对“宗教、音乐”等非现实领域领悟力甚高。...

--i did hear sister criticised me 变来变去 (ref. posted: 啥八字的人性格最善变--when my sister then spouse accused me 变来变去...真无辜 冤枉Aaa)
but comparing with spouse i would say he is the one 做事不明说 but expect i should know what happened in our house under never catch the unknown psycho thief and abuser just like ghost stick to us.
without 比较 对比 you never know how greatest our ancestors 预测 is.
spouse and me the commons are both 八字7阴1阳 偏阴柔之中一点刚硬 他固执顽拗 我执着坚持不懈, same blood type, born in poor family, graduated from good universities; i have 3 brothers 1 sister, he has 4 sisters + 1 adopted sister (10/20/2025 and father side, he only met twice in short time, step brother).

the difference his parents were re-married, he had unhappy childhood became 独来独往, 他至阴癸日 戌丑地藏2偏印; 我 had quite happy childhood, 2偏印天透地藏通旁根+1正印寅 the worst is his 八字3水3土 混浊不清 经常胡说八道 (Trump too). me 3火3木 (近木火通明 Haaaa).

if me count as “偏印”过多 why he is much more 做事不明说，靠别人“猜”，兜圈子，浪费时间?
i would say he as left hand type, has 自闭症 sympton 口齿不清楚不擅表达 and communication with people. especially when he were in urgent time became 仓促心急结巴(口吃可伴有言语或语言发育障碍).

the most important we chinese born with long history no difficult make friends, usa is quite short history plus dispised German culture, they hardly invited neighbours, make friends except say Hi or in church as friends, out of church you are stranger not friend to them.

Due to privacy, i was told do not talk politics to neighbours except rich funny guy actively mentioned he supports Reupblican and they were Demacratic supporters before (later i understood we all are masters wars victims as middle-low income, however more and more hate to hear the Demacratic this waived student loan that free till spent money in GBTxx while less and less middle-low income can be survived unless living as beggar as me-type to maintain 外在颜面 which i did post unless The Demacratic got the rotten rich agreed to pay higher taxes but we all saw they against it sooner or later so who pay it forever? afetr in person saw the previous neighbour old lady result running out of her invest money in 2022, recently we bought cheapest potatos again as the dividends and cash interest gradully wipped off down to 2021/09/09).

spouse forbid me criticised any presidents except he criticised Trump. i told him if he saw the rich funny guy inquired him whether living better but 10/14/2025 garbage picked up day he did see the rich guy when they put 2 tanks on the street both just say hi then 各自垂头丧气 returned home. due to 10/10 Trump tariff war target at China caused deeply down. 10/18 he supposed to eat noodle lunch with me but so many weeks didnt visit burger king he changed mind bought 2 份 cheeseburger $9.54, i didnt eat humburger to save it for his tomorrow lunch.

10/20/2025 still encourage adult people to marry because thru spouse may cure/improve your problems. marriage give you 比较 对比 and know more. especially if you are 孤僻 and found the spouse even more 孤僻 then you would become less 孤僻. thru marriage frequently argued, dispute, fighting you would become stronger. ...even our marriage not 幸福美满 and most time not happy but i still felt 值得的 and better than live alone.
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八字“硬”知识（八） 转自 谢昭初 2025-10-18
一、偏印
同性相生，有理无情，类似“上班”的一种“责任”，照章办事、能免则免。

不论男女，“偏印”成格或坐旺禄者，家庭生活有“理、法”而少“情趣”，而偏印格当事人并无恶意，只是性格如此，若见冲刑会合，则因“个性”而易引发“事端”。

“偏印”过多者，性格“孤僻”，表达含蓄。遇事不称心之时，则出言简短而带讽刺，格调孤峻，不大肯以“幽默”的心情修正自己的错误，通常要找“台阶”才会默默承认自己的过失，缺乏勇于承认错误的气量。

做事不明说，靠别人“猜”，兜圈子，浪费时间；有“艺术、文学、哲理”天赋，对“宗教、音乐”等非现实领域领悟力甚高。

所谓“多”，并不完全以偏印个数而论，通根、天透地藏同论。若四柱全阴，则恐有“言清行浊”之弊，再带凶煞，女子恐有失声誉。

1、“偏印”在年柱，干支俱透，不利于长亲。“偏印”为“偏母”，“偏母”在年上当令，则“正母”无权，故曰“不利长亲’。

２、“偏印”专位在“月支”，以“艺术、文学、技艺、宗教、中医、针灸、拳技、命卜、占星...”等专长为业。

所谓“专位”，是指十二地支中的“子、午、卯、酉”四个地支，等同“禄位”。

3、“偏印”坐“绝位”，或遇天干压“偏印”于“绝”支，则纵有绝技在身，也不易获得应有之成就、声誉。如：辛酉、辛卯、丁巳、甲辰，卯中“乙”为日主“丁”火偏印，月干“辛”金盖头，“辛”绝于“卯”，被压于“辛”金“绝位”。

4、日支坐“偏印”於专位，不论男女，姻缘俱有苦衷，遇冲尤不吉。日支坐偏印专位者，只有“丁卯、癸酉”二日。

5、天干两见“偏印”，或三见“偏印”，皆主“迟婚、独身”之兆。（天干三偏印者，亦兼论为家族人口凋零、亲属日稀之兆。）

6、女命“偏印”多者，子息少，也不喜欢带小孩。依“十神生克”而论，“偏印”克“食伤”，女命以“食伤”为子息，故此，女命“偏印”多，或在“时柱”根重，皆主与子息缘浅。另，“偏印”之浓厚艺术性格，有“怕烦、怕吵”的心态，不喜欢多处儿童喧闹之环境。

7、干支“偏印”坐月柱，专位入“格局”者，乃“有慧无福”之人。如：戊子、辛酉、癸未、丁巳，月柱“专位”之“偏印”成格，艺术气息过重，不事生产不喜争利，且因自己的性格，捨弃唾手可得之利益。

8、日支专位“偏印”，又遇冲刑者，因自己的性格而惹祸招灾。日支坐专位“偏印”，即是“丁卯、癸酉”二日，又见冲刑者，不论这个八字是不是“偏印格”，只要日支自坐专位“偏印”遇冲刑，俱论为“因性格之故，而遭意外之灾害。（乙禄在卯）”。

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八字“硬”知识（七）...天地之数逢七而绝...

--癸日主 天之数10 戌土戊 地之数5, (戊癸合化火) 合七而绝
天干合七则为煞 1甲 6己合化土 1 + 6 = 7 (2-1)乙 (7-1)庚合化金; (3-2)丙 (8-2)辛合化水, (4-3)丁 (9-3)壬合化木, (5-4)戊 (10-4)癸合化火; 地支遇七则为冲 1子 7午冲, 丑未冲, 寅申冲, 卯酉冲, 辰戌冲, 巳亥冲

传统命理中的“逢七必变”在子平法中，“逢七必变”指命局运行到第七步时发生显著变化

ex spouse 第七步大运 丙午(66-75) 癸日主 午绝 70 retired, got 3 years very weird huge pain (cancelled Amtrak train trip) ends with left leg frozen toes, count as 身体显著变化? indeed he was lucky, as one of the 6? mystery huge pain diseases cured by liquid medicine added to 水滴袋, called as 绝处逢生.

but 丁未大运(76-85) as 79 开始排便不顺 (daily 2 meals, ate not enough ? just remind him again) , 土旺克癸日主?

Ps my 第七步大运 己酉(64-73) is not fit the [绝] but [长生] self body this year got unknown needle pain which disappeared after quit Alendronate 70mg for bone density medicine until Oct happened again, as 68 count as 身体显著变化?

ps 10/20/2025 we both eyes this year quality down a lot as 78 and 68, cant read small letters on router that when black screen happened on 8/12, cant but bought new modem, router then returned, returned modem bought router with modem and sometimes ISP network broke we cant but gave router MAC address, serial number to router and ISP companies, it became painful cant verify (8, B; 0, O; 5, 6 or b, 6; 1, l).

八字3水3土 戌: 地藏本气戊土为阳土; 丑: 地藏本气己土为阴土 天透地藏通旁旁根(月柱己 时柱丑) count as 七杀过多?

9、“偏印”过多，又与伤官同时透出天干者，对女命最为不利。以“偏印”制子息，“伤官”制夫星，若无“偏财”与“天月德贵人”相助，恐为“夫离子散”之局。

10、“偏印”多或成格，俱有“艺术性格”，此八字是属于“有福之人”，还是“孤芳自赏的清贫艺人”，关键在于：偏印必以偏财、天月德贵人为依。四柱之中，同时也有“偏财”见于天干，其艺术价值才能得以体现；毕竟，歌唱得再好，无赏识的有钱人一掷千金也无用。

“偏印”多又根重，又不见偏财、天月德贵人者，乃“智重福轻”之人，“清风明月谁与共，高山流水少知音。”

二、正印

阴生阳、阳生阴，有“牺牲自己，成就他人”的五行“有情”。

正印格，不会因“利害”而影响，而是靠“直觉”自我牺牲，不问成败。若付诸“人性”，除“五行”之无私，还有符合对方的方法，在于四柱有无“官杀”。

“印”是清雅之神，并无具体之实质，有“官杀”，则有公权力的支持。

“正印”成格，或正印多见者，有明显的“谋士、文人”气质。为人聪明有谋，善于隐藏自己心中真正的目的，善解人意，即使遇到不如意的遭遇和环境，也能顺应外界的客观形势，是一种典型的“识时务之俊杰”。

“正印”不怕日主坐死绝，反而怕日主太强。如果日主在地支之中有“临官、帝旺”之根，而又“正印”太多，反作“孤寂”与“不善理财”。

“正印”在六亲中代表母亲，如果自坐死绝，或者天干“正印”而地支有冲刑，皆是主不利于“母亲”，唯在“时柱”者，不作此论。

单独的“正印”多，并不主有大的福业，只主“秀气、艺术、文才”之气质，必须“正官、七杀”也出天干，一种“杀生印、印生身”的气势，方以吉论。

正印成格者，一生都受母亲在性格上直接、间接的影响。

三、正印的“通关”三联制

任何一种“十神”，都有相克的“忌神”，独以“正印格”有些趣论：

1、“印”怕“财”克；

2、“财”是金钱与“女缘”，常人又不能离此；

3、“正印格”能不受“财”拖累，又有良好“妻室”，必须在“八字”上先要有“官杀”，如此就形成“财生官杀，官杀生印”——三联通关。

4、“官杀”又可以制“比劫夺财”。

由此，“正印”在论命之时，它的“性格、六亲”只是一种文人现象，论命是论实务的成败，寻常八字不一定有“成败”之论，人命一旦入“正印格”，就有机会论“成败”了。关键只在四柱有没有“通根”之官杀，哪怕是“官杀混杂”，也总比完全没有“官杀”为吉。女命尤重“官杀”。

正印坐“比肩”，或者坐“羊刃、劫财”，都没有大妨害，最多只是家庭人口不多而已。因为，正印怕财，有比肩、劫财在地支中，反而可以制财，以免“财去克印”。

正印多者，只有两种情况不怕财星来克：一是有“比肩”在天干者；二是有“正官”或者“七杀”在天干者。

四、喜先财后印，忌先印後财

“印”与“财”同时出天干，而且是接近于“势均力敌”之时，除上面所说的“比肩、官杀”可以疏通外，在没有“疏通”的情况下，只要是“财”在前，而“印”在後，也没有大的妨碍；如果是“印”在前，而“财”在後，则就不是理想的格局了。

经曰：“先财後印，反成其福；先印後财，恐增憂辱。”

“先财後印”——先有足够的钱，再谈清高，就没有闲言闲语；

“先印後财”——先谈清高，然後又要钱，会有事后闲话。

正印多，保守本份，不轻易改弦易辙，谦和有修养；理财保守，不太多无谓之人情，虽不主动帮助别人，但遇事之际，亦予人方便，处于“厚道”与“自保”之间。

1、先财後印，无冲刑者，一生吉祥；多享现成之福，常得贵人相助；

2、先印後，平生多为他人奔忙（男命）；

3、“正印”坐“正财”，夫妻随娶随伤（男命）；在月柱，“正印”坐专位“正财”，即使不见冲刑，也可以视之为“克妻”；在时柱，则主此造年近五十始有正常之婚姻，青年、中年之感情生涯必无结局。

4、“正印”坐“正印”，在专位者，则过于自信。如：戊辰、乙卯、丙申、丙申，月柱“乙卯”。

“正印”坐专位“正印”，不论男女，母长寿；或通根日、时地支，女命子息迟；四柱无“正官、七杀”者，女命无良缘，男命则以高级艺术而棲身，从事商业，是性格孤僻而不聚财。

四见“正印”，则作“偏印”论，须“偏财”；三合印——甲日申子辰，亦作“偏印”论，须“偏财”。

5、正印坐专位“偏印”。职业多有兼取，“正带偏”的现象。还有“家庭不吉，眷属有疾，或者有特别之嗜好，子息迟”等兆。

6、“正印”坐“伤官”，只宜从事清高之事业，尤不利在“名利”场中争逐。在“时支”略差，人至晚年，多少会有些自制。

7、“正印、七杀、羊刃”全者，女命乃宗教人士之命，否则独身。男命亦有“自鸣清高”，不喜与“志不同、道不合”的人相处；常有“小疾”缠身；婚姻不佳，恐有“非婚生子女”。

8、“正印”坐“羊刃”，身心多伤，心疲力竭，鞠躬尽粹之士。

不论男女，“正印格”之关键，只在有没有“官杀”坐旺通根。