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當你開口說話時,你說出的話要比你的沉默更有價值!
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當你開口說話時,你說出的話要比你的沉默更有價值!
一個人的言行不僅反應他的見識,還代表他的人品和能力。所以說話是一門非常值得學習的藝術。
在什麼場合,什麼時機,跟什麼人,說什麼,說多或是說少都是學問。
你越會說話,別人就越快樂,別人越快樂,就會越喜歡你;別人越喜歡你,你得到的幫助就越多,你會越快樂。
一個人,如果連自己都控制不了,還掌控什麼世界?一個人如果連自己的嘴都管不好,還能掌握人生改變命運嗎?
聰明的人說話,是因為他們有重要的話要說;愚昧的人說話,則是因為他們不把話說出來心裡難過。
所以,當你要開口說話時,你所說的話必須比你的沉默更有價值才行。
常言道:口為禍福之門,懂得謹言慎行,顧及他人感受,才是智者之為。
子禽也曾這樣問墨子:“多說話有好處嗎?”墨子答道:“蒼蠅、青蛙,白天黑夜叫個不停,叫得口乾舌疲,然而沒有人去聽它的。但你看那雄雞,在黎明按時啼叫,天下震動,人們聞聲而起。
多說話有什麼好處呢?重要的是話要說得切合時機。
言語就像是人們的第二張面相,只不過它體現的是更為深層次的你——你的為人和思想的水準。這也是為什麼我們在日常社交中,和有些人講兩句話就不願再與其深交,可是和有些人講起話來卻覺得特別舒適和自然,希望能與他的關係更加親密。你對一個人的言行下定論的同時,你所說的話,別人同樣在心裡評定著你。
說話要注意兩點:第一、假話不說,第二真話不全說。
我們都知道假話無疑最傷人,但有的時候過於直白的真話多少也讓人心寒,我們普通的生活裡同樣如此。
會不會說話?能不能管好自己的嘴?總在一點一滴的積累中影響著我們的命運和機遇。
說該說的話,多積口德,少生口禍,世界不會虧待你,生活不會虧待你。

Neil Young & Paul McCartney-A Day In The Life(New Sound)Live From Hyde Park 27th June 2009
I read the news today, oh boy
About a lucky man who made the grade
And though the news was rather sad
Well, I just had to laugh
I saw the photograph
He blew his mind out in a car
He didn’t notice that the lights had changed
A crowd of people stood and stared
They’d seen his face before
Nobody was really sure if he was from the House of Lords
I saw a film today, oh boy
The English Army had just won the war
A crowd of people turned away
But I just had to look
Having read the book
I’d love to turn you on
(Orchestra)~~~~~~~~~~~~(*Crescendo*)
Woke up, fell out of bed
Dragged a comb across my head
Found my way downstairs and drank a cup
And looking up, I noticed I was late (*Breathe*)
Found my coat and grabbed my hat
Made the bus in seconds flat
Found my way upstairs and had a smoke
And somebody spoke and I went into a dream
Ah ~~~~ah ~~~~~ah
I read the news today, oh boy
Four thousand holes in Blackburn, Lancashire
And though the holes were rather small
They had to count them all
Now they know how many holes it takes to fill the Albert Hall
I’d love to turn you on

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