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聽到自己
2008/05/27 09:17
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說話

表達自己

和別人有積極的溝通互動

似乎是本能

大多時候也被視為理所當然

有口難言

甚至當自己努力表達時

卻言不及義

或別人根本聽不到

亦或聽不懂時

那種感覺很不是滋味

聲音代表你的形像

你的聲音可以有信任感

你的聲音可以充滿活力熱情

你的聲音為你散發感染力

你的聲音可溫暖另一顆孤寂的心

聲音沙啞的我,最好愛自己的方法就是

少講話、多休息、補充水份。

當然更重要的是多些時間聽聽別人怎麼說

畢竟傾聽也是種雙向溝通的必要條件

靜下心來聽聽自己的內在聲音(inner voice)似乎更是重要

在失聲的這段時間中 感受到朋友 家人 同學

甚至學生的主動關懷

那是甜甜的感覺

祝我早日發聲

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5樓. Frank
2008/05/28 10:09
thanks for the message

This message reminds me that I can pay more attention to the people I care when they do something, their facial expression, their gesture, what they choose and the way they treat me. Verbal communication is one part of communication.

Frank

Good communication is as charming, fascinating, appealing and captivating as strong coffee or hot tea which makes me awake, enthused and inspired.

Happiness2008/05/28 12:36回覆
4樓. Happiness
2008/05/27 23:57
The powerful silence
http://www.wisdomquotes.com/cat_silence.html
Rachel Naomi Remen:

The most basic and powerful way to connect to another person is to listen. Just listen. Perhaps the most important thing we ever give each other is our attention…. A loving silence often has far more power to heal and to connect than the most well-intentioned words.

3樓. Happiness
2008/05/27 23:54
We need silence to touch souls

 “See how nature - trees, flowers, grass - grows in silence; see the stars, the moon and the sun, how they move in silence...we need silence to be able to touch souls.”

 Mother Teresa
2樓. Happiness
2008/05/27 23:52
Silence speaks louder

 “Silences make the real conversations between friends. Not the saying but the never needing to say is what counts.”  Margaret Lee Runbeck

 

1樓. Charles
2008/05/27 21:24
Voiceless is a blessing

Sometimes, it is a blessing if you become voiceless. You could enjoy listening what people are trying to say. Without two-way communication, how can you do the meaning negotiation?  Share us your comments. Wish your voice be back soon.

Thanks for your feedback. As long as I can dialog with my soul, I have a feeling of staying in the heaven. Besides, I think some how the meaningful negotiation doesn't necessarily lie in the verbal communications. Silence between two persons is a unique way of meaning negotiation. I think I just enjoy the atmosphere of harmony and mutural trust and understanding. Happiness2008/05/27 23:47回覆
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