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[學品格]跟孩子談「分享」
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文/杰士特索瑞~~這樣子叫做:『分享』,分享的意思就是有好東西要和好朋友分享。

我們看的書大多是買了,也就是我們花蠻多錢買書。像我們之前說的,我們會給達達自主權選購他想要看的書,這些書累積下來算蠻多的。我問達達:「你覺得要怎麼處理你看過的書比較好呢?」
達達抓抓頭說:「嗯~我不知道耶!」
「我們把這些書拿到阿姨的安親班,看看有沒有其他小朋友想看......」
「好啊!好啊!」達達高興地說著。

「達達,這樣子叫做:『分享』,分享的意思就是有好東西要和好朋友分享。如果你看到了很棒的書,也可以介紹給你的朋友,請他一起來看!」我說。
達達很樂於將他的書籍和其他小朋友分享,所以安親班有一個小朋友專屬的課外讀物書櫃,裡面有一半都是達達分享的書籍。而且,我跟達達說:「這些課外書啊,我們要『推陳出新』喔!」
「推陳出新?是什麼意思?」
「就是,把大家都看過的書拿回家,再把你最近剛看完的書拿過來啊!」我說。
達達很喜歡我這樣的提議,這樣子他就可以跟其他小朋友說,他最近又看了哪些書了。

這些課外書最大的作用,是學校有一個「閱讀學習單」的功課,我看很多小朋友到了要寫課外閱讀學習單的時候,就會到書櫃裡選一本書來寫,而且感覺一直有不同的新書,可以寫不同的「閱讀學習單」。

我們一直很慶幸達達很早就進入閱讀的世界,因此,像是閱讀、寫閱讀學習單、寫讀書心得這樣的功課,多半難不倒他。但是看看安親班其他的孩子,有些人不是很喜歡閱讀課外書,不會寫讀書心得,我們覺得很可惜。所以,我們用「分享書籍」的方式,分享我們家的閱讀模式,希望可以讓更多小朋友喜歡上閱讀。我跟達達這麼說。

除了書籍之外,如果他有糖果餅乾,他也很願意和其他小朋友分享;有時他在學校或安親班當小老師,他也樂於分享已經學會的知識。達達是一個慷慨的孩子,很願意和其他孩子分享很多事物,令我和費雪感到十分喜悅。

各位看官,您知道九歲、十歲小男孩就不願意分享的是什麼東西嗎?玩具。既使他已經有了滿山滿谷的玩具車車,要他拿出一兩台出來給他的外甥小朋友玩,無論如何他就是不肯。(外甥??沒錯,達達早就已經當舅舅了,要叫他舅舅的外甥,小他一年。)從「玩具」這件事就可以看出一位小男孩的堅持,不肯就是不肯。
「借玩、一起玩,可以;要送別人,卻是萬萬不可。」


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2010/06/06 05:40
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謝謝您,解惑了我...

感謝。

大尾柴2010/06/09 23:24回覆
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2010/05/30 20:00
sharing
It's very good idea and method to teach children how to share what they likes to others. From time to time, my little boy who said to his mates at kindergarten he didn't like it when something bad they made to him reminds me of another idea. He shares his feeling of what he doesn't like with his mates. I think it is very important to guide them to share the good things and what they don't like with their friends and even us, adults. 
Another thing I like to mention here is we teach our children how to share but in fact in our real life experiences we forgot to share a lot of things with other people who we know or we don't know. For example, parking a vehicle in some cities in Taiwan is very difficult because of limited parking space. People always treat the parking space in front of their house belong to their personal one. When they drive away their vehicles they always put out a "no parking sign" on there to stop the other's right to park there. Why don't we share it?
When we drive a vehicle or motobike in Taiwan, we always see a lot of people fight for a lane to want to be a first to go. We hardly see anyone like to give way to someone else or take a turn to get into the lane. All of these types of things are happening when their children just sit on the back seat to watch and think why our parents don't do any sort of sharing but ask us to do.
There are too many examples like that I can't mention due to time limit. I just feel it's a big shame on adults.
Ask ourselves to act how to share in front of children will be better than just tell them how to do it. I wish we could make a little change of ourselves now, we could make the community better and more safe.
謝謝...非常感謝。 大尾柴2010/06/09 23:23回覆
1樓. 大尾柴
2010/05/07 22:41
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