In the process of learning how to control your attitude, do not take the sufferings with the thought that you are doing it because you don’t want to disappoint your family, loved ones, and your master. This kind of thought can make you lose the opportunities to discipline your sentient type, and accordingly make you unable to control your attitude, and thus your attitude can’t handle the upcoming source pressure with all your strength. In the end, your attitude can’t reach true happiness, and can’t stay between the states of not happy and yet not unhappy.