Yesterday, my mother invited her friends to home for afternoon tea as usual, but there was something different this time. Yu-Chen, my mother's friend's daughter, is four years older than me. She is a very nice girl. Because she has a new boyfriend who works in IBM Corporation, it became one of our small talk topics during conversation.

According to her mother, Yu-Chen's new boyfriend is not very handsome, but he is honest man. Besides, when Yu-Chen gets angry, he can turn bad circumstances into peace. As a result, her mother said Yu-Chen found her right man and she expected to have a son-in-low. Then, one of my mother's friends said that a man who owns characteristics of being one's boyfriend is not necessarily a perfect husband. I agree in mind. The marriage combines two families. Due to different habits and personality, a couple has to learn to respect and forgive each other. If they can't tolerate or change themselves and argue every now and then, they could end sadly.

Since I entered university, my mother, relatives and friends often ask me if I have a boyfriend and I always say no. But if you ask me if I have fallen in love, I would say yes. Actually, I like the feeling of being in love and wish I can have a boyfriend, but now I just want to concentrate on my studies and enjoy my own freedom. As matter of fact, I look forward to love and in the mean time am afraid of it. Maybe I am not mature enough= =...Forget it. When it comes, it comes. I decide to let fate take the lead.